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The 1 Obvious Thing You’re Doing That’s Turning Your Partner Off

Ready for a revelation? Sex is complicated. Whether it’s your first time with a new partner or your 100th time with a long-term one, there have likely been plenty of moments when things got difficult.

We did some research and found the one obvious thing you could be doing that is affecting your sex life, and as a result, your relationship.

For starters, there’s no perfect sex life

A couple lies together pondering in bed.

A couple lies together pondering in bed. Everyone’s idea of the “perfect” sex life is different. | Katarzyna Bialasiewicz/iStock/Getty Images Plus

Hopefully you’ve accepted the fact that perfection is unattainable. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t be your best self in your relationship. Sex is a sensitive topic, especially at the beginning of something new.

This is why it’s important to identify from the start what a good sex life looks like to you. When everything else seems perfect, it’s time to zone in on what isn’t working for you and your partner.