It takes a strong woman to accept the same Edible Arrangements, macaroni necklaces, and failed cooking experiments every year for Mother’s Day — and with a smile, no less. But now that we’re all grown up, things are a little different.

After doing this adulting thing for a while, we truly understand that being a mom is one of the hardest jobs there is. So instead of a burnt homemade dinner (which we’re sure she’d still love), a spa date seems more fitting. Mom deserves at least 50 minutes of pure, uninterrupted silence and a massage as thanks for all the frantic late-night calls and constant demands.

If you’re trying to plan the perfect pampering date for mom (and if you’re located in The Big Apple), we did some digging and picked out some of the best spa deals in the area.

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AIRE Ancient Baths

AIRE Ancient Bath is offering two deals for the special lady in your life. The Pamper Her package is a solo experience that includes a 45-minute massage, a 15-minute body scrub, and the location’s ancient thermal bath experience. The latter includes access to multiple pools, including a freezing dunk, a bubbling hot tub, and saltwater float pool. If you’re tagging along with mom, you can check out the Relax With Her package, which includes the ancient baths and a 45-minute massage.

AIRE Ancient Baths, 88 Franklin Street; (646) 878-6174
The Pamper Me Package, $225 (excludes gratuity) and Relax With Her $450 per person (excludes gratuity).

The Red Door Spa

For the mom who needs to chill out, gift her the new CBD massage at The Red Door. The 50-minute essential massage features CBD body oil to ease inflammation and joint pain. The experience will put her in complete zen mode. The best part? When you book a service over $150, you’ll get money back to spend at the spa. So if you can’t make it to an appointment with your mom, you can always make a later appointment for yourself.

The Red Door Spa, 663 5th Avenue; (212) 546-0200
CBD Essential Massage, $195. Mother’s Day Special: Spend $150 Get $25. Spend $250 Get $50. Spend $350 Get $100.

Cornelia Spa at The Surrey Hotel

At the Cornelia Spa at The Surrey Hotel moms can enjoy the Tranquil Retreat. The package includes three luxurious services, including a 60-minute Champagne Shimmer Aroma Massage, a 30-minute honey exfoliating treatment, and a 30-minute facial. Of course, there’s also Prosecco for sipping.

The Cornelia Spa at The Surrey Hotel, 20 East 76th Street; (888) 419-0052
Mom’s Tranquil Retreat, $425 per person ($470 value).

Oasis Day Spa

If you’re booking a service for your mom at Oasis Day Spa, you can get 15% off spa gift cards when you spend $150 or more. Consider making an appointment for the Oasis Retreat, which includes a 60-minute body wrap, a Swedish massage, and 60-minute signature facial.

Oasis Day Spa, 1 Park Avenue; (212) 254-7722
Oasis Retreat Package, $370 (excludes gratuity and taxes). Mother’s Day Promo: Use code “MOM19” starting May 2 for 15% off.

Warren Tricomi Salon

If your mom is more of a blowout and pedi type of gal, spoil her with a service (or two) at Warren Tricomi Salon. Schedule your appointment between May 12-18, and she’ll walk away with a goodie bag of full-sized hair products to keep her looking fabulous between appointments.

Warren Tricomi Salon, 125 5th Avenue Fl 2; (212-262-8899 ext.3).
Mother’s Day Special: Book a service during the week of Mother’s Day and receive a free full-sized Warren Tricomi shampoo and conditioner.

Paintbox Nails

Take mom out for a mani date at Paintbox, where she can enjoy a special Mother’s Day negative-space design that’ll look good even after it grows out. She can also sip on a glass of Prosecco (or two) while she gets her nails done.

Paintbox Nails, 17 Crosby Street; (212) 219-2412
Regular manicure with design, $72; gel manicure with design, $75. Mother’s Day design available 4/29 – 5/12.

Christine Chin Spa

Christine Chin Spa isn’t a beauty-editor favorite for nothing. The esthetician has designed thorough facial services that will make your skin look (and feel) like a million bucks. Now through the end of May, you and your mom can enjoy 50% off one service when you book another at full price.

Christine Chin Spa, 82 Orchard St; (212) 353-0503

Book one service and get the other half-off. Call to reserve, no code required.

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